Stella James'Blog

                                                     FOR HOW LONG ? There are some things we do in our everyday life, that we are not meant to do, and may I ask you; "FOR HOW LONG"? For how long will you keep doing them? For how long will keep procrastinating? For how long will you keep making the same mistakes over and over? For how long will you keep going against the rules? For how long will you keep living a fake life? For how long will you keep holding a grudge against that person? For how long will you keep living in pain? For how long will you keep making the wrong decision? For how long will you keep going against your policy that's meant to help you? For how long will keep hoping, when you are not making preparations and any move towards your dreams? For how long will you keep blabbing and being excited about y...

                  DON'T BE UNGRATEFUL You might not have that expensive car you want now. You might not have that big house you want now. You might not have that luxurious life you want to live now. But you have your life, *Be Grateful*. There are people in the hospital, people who have life but are living in pain. Go to the cemetery, the mortuary, many bodies are there, why??, because they are dead, some of these bodies' souls are restless, even in their death they can't find peace, how much more you that you are alive. You are alive, hale and hearty, healthy and strong, safe and sound, "Be grateful"  You might not have good quality food to eat, but at least there's something on your table that's eatable and manageable, be grateful. There are people out there who beg, people who have to pickpockets in order not to die of hunger and people who search the refuse bin for leftover food. Some even die as a result of no food for...

It doesn't matter what you are facing in life, living a lonely life is not the right option. I know how that feels, you find yourself staying far off from people and it feels like the best thing to do, because your heart is too wounded. But still you need to try as much as possible to try to be social, if not, you would end up sending the right people away, people who are meant to help, build you up, even your helpers or benefactors, you might end up sending them away through your isolated lifestyle. And you can end up regretting that forever. Living this way is more or less like a bondage, no matter what man go through in life, they would always need someone. If you are going to be shattered and broken, someone is behind it and probably yourself, but if you are going to be a better person, someone has to be involved too which is compulsory. You can't be be better and successful on your own. I know it's a bit difficult to be free with people again, but you have t...

               *IT CAME AGAIN* Sat down in class; Listening to "Perfect" by Ed - sheeran I just love the song, and I was really loving the vibes; but... Suddenly; the lyrics rang in my head; I became fully aware, the meaning of the song; The wordings struck me; Before I knew it, I was lost in thoughts; It gave birth to flashbacks & memories; I remembered him; “How we USED to be“ “I like someone else“, “you deserve better“ Those words hurt me, I knew he liked some one else before we met, but they were not together. I thought I could help him take her off his head so he could completely move on, thereby giving him a chance to love again, but I was wrong. Still, I foolishly gave my heart to him, and officially it has become the most stupid decision have made so far in my life, emotionally. Haven't really had a serious and deep talk with him, and I know why am avoiding that. Accepted that I fell for him even when he knew he s...

YOU CAN'T You can't be perfect You can't stop trying You can't correct everything You can't make everyone love you You can't live without principles You can't give up You can't please everyone You can't disappoint your parents You can't let depression end you You can't follow the ways of people You can't let words get to you too easily You can't be on your own (an outcast) You can't relent You can't be too fragile You can't let people choose for you You can't live a fake life You can't revenge You can't be controlled You can't continue like this You can't forget the foundation You can't reveal your weakness You can't have low self-esteem You can't trust anyone You can't trust yourself You can't neglect who you are You can't runaway from your fears You can't runaway from your past You can't turn back time You can't be conquered You can...

                                                                        BORN TO MAKE A CHANGE Have you ever sat down? And asked yourself;  What exactly am I on earth for? You were being given birth to and now you've grown and still growing, ever thought of why exactly you were born? And if you never thought of it, is it all about growing? Shouldn't it be more than that? These are the questions we should take our time to ask ourselves. Life isn't just all about growing up, getting married, having kids and a good business and that's all! No! Even, let's assume that's it, what of the sick people outside, the needy, ever thought of them and a solution to their problem? How you can be of help to them?. If you keep growing and enjoying life the way you want, what of the ones that are ill outside ...

                                                           They said you can't make it, but GOD says! you are born to make it!  Y0u shall be successful!! They say you are too small, that they don't need tiny ones like you, but GOD says! As little as you are, they shall bow before you, serve you, wash your feet till their end They said you are just an ordinary and regular boy/girl, but GOD says! You are not ordinary, ye are the sons and daughters of the most high GOD, GOD says you are talented! Inspiring! You are motivating! You are supernatural! You are beautifully made! You are perfect! “Because greater is he that is in you than he that is in the world”  As long as you believe that GOD is in you, and you are in HIM, you are all these mentioned and beyond! Remember you are created in GOD'S image, so you are th...

Because they complained about you, you changed too... Let me ask you, are they the one that created you? Are you them? Are they you?  In fact are you sure you are normal at all,  Let me tell you the bitter truth; there's something wrong with you,  The moment you change because of what people say about you. Have you forgotten that there's no other version of you? You can even increase your standard and build up your personality, Thereby making it the version of yourself that people try hard to copy but can't, Because your personality and yourself is unexplainable and breathtaking. Have you forgotten so soon or have you not heard that, The right people ready to accept you for who you are, are just close by.  And you are going to meet them, or they are even there but you are just blindfolded. Sorry if this sounds insultive, but it's the truth. #Think big

I understand you've been betrayed I understand you've been disappointed I understand you've been mocked I understand you've been intimidated I understand you've been condemned I understand you've been forgotten I understand you're messed up already I understand you've been embarrassed publicly I understand you've been abused emotionally I understand you've done and tried everything in your power I understand you want to give up because of the stress I understand you've been abandoned, left behind, left alone I understand you've been misunderstood & it has led to a big damage I understand that everyone has turned their back on you I understand you want to live a closed, secret & private life because of everything you've faced. I understand it's really hard but you know, that's not how it should end. It started roughly though, some, it became rough in the middle, but it shouldn't end that way. It...

His love is too mind - blowing What do we say it? How do we even start? How do we appreciate this GOD for HIS love? We don't deserve his love yet he gave us his love! We offend HIM everyday! Yet we are still alive because he LOVES us! When we are sad he makes us happy! When everyone turned their backs on us , He stood by us! When everyone condemns us, He complements us! There's none like him and there will never be! Even when we let go of Him, he still holds unto us! In our happiest day - he's there! In our sad days - he's there! In our most embarrassing days - he's there! In our ugly days - he's still there! And the most surprising thing is, he will still tell you; "You are beautiful; You are handsome, I love you"! Hurt him, hurt him, hurt him - He's still there! We don't deserve this LOVE! His LOVE is unending! He sacrificed his ONLY son for ALL of us, including unborn generations! Which one you can sacrifice you...

What's wrong? What are you going through? What are you facing?  Is it spiritually, financially, or which aspects? Are you lost? and you don't know where to go or what to do? Well there's a remedy to ALL your problems. No matter how big/small the problems are,there's someone who can help you, Someone you can trust with your whole heart and depend on and he is GOD. He isn't going to leave you, and he never abandons, disappoint or hurt his own. Instead, you end up finding yourself hurting him because he will love and take care of you too much. And you know what, despite all you do to him negatively, he still forgives you. He is willing to carry your burden, he is will to take them,to help you and put eternal happiness on your face. Just give him the chance into your life. He loves you.

Brethren! There's no time any longer! This world is coming to an end! In every new year we enter, we are a year closer to the end of our journey in life! Day by Day the world is gradually ending! And out there are people longing and thirsty for salvation! Out there are sick people waiting to be healed because they believe they just need a little push! Out there are people looking up to YOU! Yes YOU! Out there are people waiting to be inspired! People are there waiting for you, for someone like you, all they are in need of is positive influence! Captives are out there, yet to be freed! There's no time at all! Time is not on our side any longer! Don't wait till you are well grown before you share the gospel, free people, or impact their lives! Stop wasting time on the worldly things! Be attentive in every areas! Christians please wake up from your slumber! Time is ahead of us! We've wasted time, it takes the grace of GOD for us to ...

To the Love of my Life   Love me with all your heart  I want to also love you with all my heart  Baby stand by me in every areas {Good and bad times}  We would travel all around the world together   I want you to be my last hug and last everything  Sometimes i can be really stubborn and annoying but you know am the sweetest  Prove to the world how much you love me  Never let go of me  I want my family and generations coming out from US  Baby I wanna walk the AISLE with you, I want to see you standing in front of me     saying the words " I DO", "TILL DEATH DO US PART"  Trials would come, people would try to separate US because they envy US, arguments would occur between US, a lot would happen. But never loose US  Be the father of my beautiful kids, Be the mother of my beautiful kids  Be my always and forever  Baby I wanna grow old with you  Be my everything  Baby I love you so...

It was mid-noon She stood up from her bed Looking haggard and worn-out She needed to get some stuffs She reluctantly headed towards the store room It was just eight steps away from her room She barely managed to carry herself But before she could get to the store Her eyes caught the sight of something... It was her phone, sitting helplessly on the couch It was just five steps away from her bed The couch was where it ended... It was there she sat and received a grave call She paused... She remembered him... Tears filled her eyes, anger gripped her She felt helpless, Miserable, used... Loving you was my greatest mistake... How could you... How could you... She murmured... She couldn't control herself... She broke down, it was a terrible night for her It was like the world was crumbling before her She cried uncontrollably She wanted to die... but she just couldn't She didn't deserve this.. Why is it happening to her? So many questions ran through...

Let me ask you? What kind of friends do you have? Do you choose your friends? Do your friends choose you instead? Even if your friends are willing to choose you, are you willing to choose them back? Friends that will stay, will stay, Friends that will leave, will leave, Some will leave when the friendship just starts. Guys! that's life for you! Friends will betray you, Friends will get jealous of you, Friends will deceive you, Friends will break you, Friends will criticize you, Friends will hurt you real bad Friends will do a lot of things, just have to be prepared to get really hurt. But most especially, put a smile on your face, because honestly GOD is the only friend you can have that won't ever do anything bad to you, in fact, you will hurt him instead because he's just beyond perfect. But he won't still leave you, he will forgive you and still be there for you, when you need something he will provide it for you, even before you ask and beyond....