Being an outcast is not an option

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It doesn't matter what you are facing in life, living a lonely life is not the right option.
I know how that feels, you find yourself staying far off from people and it feels like the best thing to do, because your heart is too wounded.

But still you need to try as much as possible to try to be social, if not, you would end up sending the right people away, people who are meant to help, build you up, even your helpers or benefactors, you might end up sending them away through your isolated lifestyle. And you can end up regretting that forever.

Living this way is more or less like a bondage, no matter what man go through in life, they would always need someone.

If you are going to be shattered and broken, someone is behind it and probably yourself, but if you are going to be a better person, someone has to be involved too which is compulsory.

You can't be be better and successful on your own.

I know it's a bit difficult to be free with people again, but you have to be free, you need it.
Stop living a private life, it's poisonous.


At the same time, the fact that you need to shape up doesn't mean you should trust, don't trust and don't get too attached, it's the only way not to get hurt and to let go easily.



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