FLASHBACKS

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               *IT CAME AGAIN*

Sat down in class;
Listening to "Perfect" by Ed - sheeran
I just love the song, and I was really loving the vibes; but...
Suddenly; the lyrics rang in my head;
I became fully aware, the meaning of the song;
The wordings struck me;
Before I knew it, I was lost in thoughts;
It gave birth to flashbacks & memories;
I remembered him; “How we USED to be“
“I like someone else“, “you deserve better“


Those words hurt me, I knew he liked some one else before we met, but they were not together.
I thought I could help him take her off his head so he could completely move on, thereby giving him a chance to love again, but I was wrong.

Still, I foolishly gave my heart to him, and officially it has become the most stupid decision have made so far in my life, emotionally.

Haven't really had a serious and deep talk with him, and I know why am avoiding that.

Accepted that I fell for him even when he knew he still liked someone else, but he should have stopped me from liking him the moment I confessed to him, but he didn't, he only told me he liked me back, he didn't end it on that spot!.

He later stopped it though, which was wrong!
He stopped it at the wrong time!
After going far, after finally loving him with all my heart, after everything he decided to stop!

Am so so so stupid; I said to myself.


Lessons to be learnt from that short article;
*Don't be too quick to give him a YES
* Don't get your hopes too high that he can't leave you, or that he is the right one for you, so that when he ends up disappointing, you won't be too affected, you would be able to let go and move on easily.

*Not all guys who treat you specially loves you, it might be his normal way of treating girls. 

*Don't become too free and insecure when he confesses his love for you and make you feel on top of the world. (Don't be deceived, instead be watchful)

Again!!! Always have it in your mind that he could leave you and break your heart anytime so you don't get too attached and you can stay long and happy without having to talk to him and spend time with him. So when the bad time comes, it doesn't get to you too much.

Also don't be too nice, some times be mean, it's needed and it comes in handy.





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