MATURITY GONE WRONG!

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               MATURITY GONE WRONG!

The wrong side of the word "maturity" y'all don't know.

So here it goes, people have defined maturity in different ways, some say maturity is looking away from things you ought to let go, some say maturity is when you're grown enough to be able to access adult stuff, while some say being reserved is maturity. A lot of people have defined maturity in different ways, some are true, while some are.... I don't know...., but there's something I'd like to add about maturity which  I've noticed for quite some time now and I'd like to share it with you all.
Well I'd like to add that, maturity is when you have grown to learn & understand how to accept yourself the way you truly are without having to be ashamed, Funny right?...I would explain.

People of nowadays most especially "teens and children", they have become so obsessed with the word "Maturity". They want to get to that stage as fast as possible, they want to be mature as soon as possible, why? because the word "maturity" has being hyped, they believe if they are not matured they won't have access to certain things, they believe if they are not matured, they won't be called big boys and girls, they believe if they are not matured, people won't see them as someone with high class. And because of how much this has being hyped they want to go into it so fast,....
It's just like a relationship, they want to go into it before their time because of what they hear about relationship, they also want to have the feeling, that's the same case with maturity.

Every boy child and girl child want to be so matured quickly, they want to face hardships so that after the hardship they can claim they've gone through a lot and say" am all grown and matured now". Even the hardship they haven't faced, they will say they have.... Why? They want to claim they are matured too....
While all these maturity scheme is going on, they've forgotten all about who they are...They've neglected their true self all because they want to be matured and be referred to as big boy and girls. 

"We need to understand that maturity is a gradual process of growth, in fact it's someone that will see you and tell you that you are matured. "

It pains me to see the boy child and girl child forming gang for big boys and girls sake which they call maturity, forgetting who they are, neglecting what their true personality is like, thereby locking up their potentials.
That's why I believe and want to say that if anyone wants to be matured like they really crave for, let their level of maturity start by first accepting and expressing their true self and also flaunt it. In fact, that's what I want to believe maturity is on my side. Until we have the understanding that being our true self matters a lot then we can be matured......

"Being your true self gradually brings out the maturity in you, if you don't know. For everything we become in life, our true self has a bigger role to play in it".

Let me ask you;
"What exactly is the usefulness of being matured when you have no idea or you don't know who you are and your kind of person?.
You want to be matured, well, there's nothing wrong with growing and growing into maturity, the problem is when you make it a priority and forget yourself!!
Let's stop chasing what's not supposed to be chased after and let's start taking note if what's more important.



Until you become your true self freely, you've no sense of maturity!.



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