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Heyo readers, I hope we're good?  I should have brought in this earlier! Well this is not an article...nah...it's not, it's more like an announcement, you know, I need to carry everyone of you along, because you're family! and thanks to you all, your supports, encouragements and positive words, have gone to some extent on this journey. I love you all so much, If I can carve my  heart out to prove it, Maybe I would🌚...lol...but sincerely I do love you all! Thanks again!😘😘😘 "that's definitely not my lips print, but am giving you all a lot of kisses, to say thank you!" 😁🙃 Quickly, I want to announce to you all that I'll be taking a break/time out, from this blog for a short while....yeah I remember I had one, months back, but you know that break that occurred then, wasn't intentional at all, it wasn't, it actually happened suddenly. But the one about to happen now, is intentional and needed, sincerely it's for th...

So tell me, why's it taking you so long to accept GOD into your life, I mean GOD the trinity. What more prove do you need that HE'S real and HE truly loves you? Is JESUS sacrificing himself not enough?  Let me put it this way... Can you sacrifice your life for the Nigeria government to rectify their wrong doings despite all they've done and how far they've ruined things and lives? Imagine that, even while you were beaten and tortured to be crucified, this same government still spat on you, mocked you, and laughed as much as they want... Won't you be having second thoughts in that process. Because in stead of them to be feeling sorrowful that someone is doing this for their sake, they still look like they were enjoying the whole scene, tell me won't you still have second thought?...  And funny enough this government don't know you, neither does it seem like they care to know. They just see you as a criminal, so the question is will you still put y...

Are you hiding in pains? Are you being too secretive? Are you suffering in silence? Do you need answers to many questions going on in your head? Are you hiding something? Do you need help but you choose not to seek it? Or you have no idea who to talk to? Is it because of the terrible things you've seen? Or the terrible & unbearable things that has happened to you? Is it because of the hardships or the trials & tribulations you are going through right now? Is it the past? Is it because you don't know how to put them to the person you want to talk to? Or is it that you're afraid to speak up about what's going on with you? There are so many things that makes us secretive, and so many things that makes us introverts overnight, that makes us change suddenly, that makes us act like strangers, so many things could cause them. But you need to remember and know that these are the things we have to pass through, some happened because it's our fate, some it...

Hello readers! It's nice to be here again, I hope we learn from this piece and assimilate it. Do you know that GOD has feelings? Well yes He does, He does have feelings. You know we really need to stop those thoughts and soliloquy that says; "He is GOD, the Almighty and Strongest, Am sure He can deal with it, " He is the creator, He can always create someone to do the exact thing He wants the person to do, or better still control the person", "He is the all-knowing, I don't need to tell Him what I need, He knows already"... Seriously??? no no no, seriously??? We need to know that as much as our GOD is powerful, so also is He humble. I tell you His humility know no bound, say that again and digest it, maybe then you would get to truly understand how GOD feels. As much as He is the greatest master and supreme king so also His He wanting to be friends with us, He wants to spend time with us and vice versa, He wants to chat with us all day long,...

You know, maybe I shouldn't really be saying this, but then, no one is too big to learn, be it over and over again, it's still learning. 95% percentage of people struggle with this anger of a thing and it does more damage to the person getting angry than the person he/she is angry with, and it can be so sad and sometimes frustrating that unnecessary anger even ends up hurting of killing, be it emotionally, psychologically or by any means. Mark that word "Unnecessary" (anger) yet "Dangerous" or rather "Deadly". You know guys, it's okay to get upset, it's okay to get angry, it's a feeling of emotion, but the danger of it staying too long within you is where the problem is, that's why you either avoid the anger by letting go or leave the vicinity where it's occurring and go to an entertaining area to forget what's going on with you, or a cool and quiet area to think things through. You also need to know that you can...

When I say you are your own solution, deep inside I know what am talking about. I know you want to say that "GOD is the real solution to every situations in life", I am not disputing that, just read along, you would understand what am saying. You need to understand that it all starts with YOU, Yes YOU. We've all being going through a lot right from the start, and we've all seek solutions to our problems by watching motivating videos, reading impacting books, quotes, blog contents, listening to positive audio, going to the hospital daily, attending seminars, conference, going for counselling, therapy, seeing experienced people and as well going to church, and most especially running to GOD for help. Truthfully, we could all find the solution we're looking for but we need to know that the solution is ABSOLUTELY USELESS if we don't put it into action. A lot of us has gone through many pain-relief videos, audio, movies e.t.c and yet we still find ourse...

Hey guys! How are you all doing? Okay so am here for the part 2 of this article, I should have gotten this done few days ago, but anyways am here now, so let's get to it. There are a lot of other silly things we do spiritual wise that we ought to stop, if I should take them one after the other, I won't stop at part 2, and there are other articles to be published, so I would try as much as possible to compress them here and date them to you as short as possible so it won't be "extremely" long. Have noticed that it's so common for Christian who are newly born again and have tasted of the heavenly things to be so eager to go into their ministerial work, always wanting to start work in their office as fast as possible. This is absolutely wrong, it doesn't work that way! You would only end up making terrible mistakes and end up going astray! Did you accept Christ so you could open church and show that you can teach or what exactly?...  You don't...

My brother, sheybi you want to toast babe abi, you can toast o, but please do it in front, don't involve GOD in it. But which one is now forming spirituality just to entice her, ehn? when did the things of the spirit becomes a tool for the things of the world? How does it correlate? Please let's know what we are doing o .... It's normal and okay to have feelings for the opposite gender, but when you are not ready and it's not the appropriate time, don't jump into or else the way you smiled when going into the relationship is the way you will cry when walking out of it. Listen, you have other important things to focus on, kill the feeling when it comes, it would just distract you from the things you need to make your utmost priority. See, when the time is right, GOD will bring your husband/wife across to you, either you've met before or not, whoever is meant to be yours, would be yours. Know that GOD will give you a befitting partner, partner that is ...

            Predestination you say? Why are we running past our due time, when GOD has predestined everything to happen in due time. Why not be patient and don't be faster than your shadow. I feel overwhelmed, assured & relaxed; Knowing fully well that my life was predestined by someone. Someone whom I know I can trust; Someone who actually created me. He is the creator of all, He is GOD He has good thoughts of you, and not of evil. He knows your beginning and end. He also knows your beginning before it ends. So why bothered? Predestination is relaxing, knowing fully well that my life is in good hands, it's being arranged, packaged, sorted-out and are bound to take place in certain seasons by GOD. Although there might be trials and tribulations, it's to make you strong and strong enough to fight!, Don't be worried, keep calm and trust GOD because everything will fall in place at the appropriate time! Stella James love...

            HEAR OUR HEART CRY LORD Lord we want to thirst deeply for you Lord we want to burn for you abnormally Help us to love you rightly. Take us to that stage where prayer and studying of the word of GOD is less difficult and in fact like bread and tea. Take us to that stage where walking in your love becomes our daily meal. Take us to that stage where our daily obedience to you is our lifestyle. Take us to that stage where preaching the gospel is like taking our most favourite meal. Take us to that stage where 24hrs is not enough time to fellowship with you. Take us to that stage where we operate so much in the spirit that our flesh begins to fade away. Take us to that stage where we groan and seek you like we are not in our senses. Take us to that stage where it's only you that matters to the extent that we don't want to think about ourselves even when you want us to! Help us to seek you truthfully! That our motive of seeking will be in ...

      COMPLEMENTS ARE POWERFUL TOO!                        YOUR COMPLEMENT MATTERS! To everyone of you reading this article on my blog, I just want to tell you that you are beautiful, you are handsome, you are talented, amazing, wonderful, sweet, inspiring and special!. I bless the day you were born, and thank you for being you and for being a light to someone's pathway. You are awesome just the way you are, your body stature is just perfect for you, it fits you beautifully, don't let what people say get to you.  Getting upset and being in pain because of someone is not worth it, you are meant to be happy, you deserve it. Do not let anyone piss you off and get on your bad side without your permission!. They don't get to make you angry whenever they want to, but YOU get to let them know they don't get to control you. No words I keep writing can quantify how wonderful and loving you are, I don't kn...

                MATURITY GONE WRONG! The wrong side of the word "maturity" y'all don't know. So here it goes, people have defined maturity in different ways, some say maturity is looking away from things you ought to let go, some say maturity is when you're grown enough to be able to access adult stuff, while some say being reserved is maturity. A lot of people have defined maturity in different ways, some are true, while some are.... I don't know...., but there's something I'd like to add about maturity which  I've noticed for quite some time now and I'd like to share it with you all. Well I'd like to add that, maturity is when you have grown to learn & understand how to accept yourself the way you truly are without having to be ashamed, Funny right?...I would explain. People of nowadays most especially "teens and children", they have become so obsessed with the word "Maturity". They want to get to that ...

Hey guys! It's been a while now🙁 If you all noticed 24th of October 2019 was the last time I posted an article titled "For How Long?". Am sorry I left for some while, the good news is am back! Yes back again! Who's excited? I am💃....so get ready to enjoy lots and lots from my blog.😁🤗 I also want to thank you all for visiting this blog and thanks to everyone who gave me feedbacks regarding the posts on my blog, your feedback kept me going, thanks for the inspiring words!.🙏❤❤ I love you all so much....😊❤❤ Stay tuned for what's coming😊😋 P.S; Make sure you scroll down the blog's main  page, you will see the "Follow" button, please please, make sure to click the follow button. Thanks in advance, I love you all😁😘